About Me Name: Choo Teck Peng
Nick: Apple
Gender: Male
DOB: 01/02/1986
Horoscope: Aquarius
Character: LONER, Serious attitude problem, kawaii, simple-minded person that thinks too much...
Email: apple_ah@hotmail.com
Camp: Hendon Camp
Course: Weapon
Now playing - Close to You – Carpenters
Sunday, April 29, 2007
Acceptance
okie... here it is... Acceptance...
acceptance also allows you to enjoy the journey instead of always being concerned about the outcome. it's life; it isn't going to go exactly as planned. accept that and move on. we also have to accept that other people don't always behave as we expect either, and that, too, requires aceptance. we can't, nor should we try to, control other people. although we might have people interest at heart, we have to accept that not everyone wanted our help in succeeding. we need to accept that people have a right to make their own choices even if those choices could lead to termination.
acceptance is not about resignation. there is huge difference. those who are resigned may withdraw from life, believing that they can no longer make a difference. they feel impotent in the face of life. their energy is drained, as they believe they are unable to make a difference. acceptance is another matter. it allows people to spend their energy wisely. it allows them to evaluate where to spend their energy so they can make a difference and live their live's purpose and when they should just accept the situation as it is. acceptance allows people to know the difference so that they don't become depleted in trying to control things that are outside of their realm of power. acceptance helps people to set boundaries on their effort and energy. acceptance allows people to move on to where they can contribute wisely. acceptance can also lead to forgiveness, which is a powerful force of energy.